Life is like driving

Life is like driving, once you get into wrong lane, you will get further and further away from your goal. but driving is better, you still have chance to make a U-turn and back to the right path, of cause time is wasted but in real life you may not able to find the U-turn. yes it's that scary.

Speaking is the same, once you say somthing and spoilt the atmosphere, it is very hard to make it right again, sometime to more you try to make it right, the more creepy you become. still don't understand what is the best thing to do in this situation, i found the the least harmful way t end it is to let the other party you alright and you hope everyone is alright then end the conversation. sigh...